Getting the Love You Want – Couples Workshops

This workshop, originally designed by Harville Hendrix, author of the best-selling book: “Getting the Love You Want – a Guide for Couples”, offers help to couples in more than 25 countries.

The workshop includes lectures, written exercises, re-romanticising exercises, demonstrations and practise of dialogue and communication processes. The workshop emphasises partners privately sharing with each other. Safety and confidentiality are given high priority. Each participant receives a comprehensive manual for use during and after the workshop.

This workshop is considered comparable to three to six months relationship counselling.

The workshop is suitable for couples who: 

• want to enrich a good relationship
• are beginning a relationship and want to keep it
• are in an unsatisfactory relationship and want to resolve long-standing difficulties
• are near break-up or divorce and want to decide if the relationship can be saved

Keeping the Love You Find
A Workshop for Individuals

Many of us, when we feel pain or frustration in our relationships,
tend to blame the other person for triggering us.
The Keeping the Love You Find workshop helps us to turn the lens around to look at ourselves,
the only person we actually have any power to change.

ABOUT THE WORKSHOP
We look at why we pick the partners we do, how we are contributing to the successes and challenges in our relationships, what missing parts of ourselves our partners carry that we then criticise in them. We say goodbye to old relationships that are getting in the way of us moving on or to old ways of being in relationship that are no longer serving us with an understanding of why we developed these strategies in the first place. We learn a lot about our own relational adaptive strategies, our defenses, and how they tend to create the very situations we are trying to protect ourselves against. You will leave with a personal growth plan to guide you in making the changes you want going forward. Perhaps most importantly, we practice a skill that will help you in all your relationships.

This workshop is suitable for
individuals who are:

# single
# separated/divorced
# widowed
# married
# in a committed relationship

WHAT YOU WILL LEARN IN THE WORKSHOP

• Gain awareness of what you look for in a partner
• Examine what it’s like for others to be in relationship with you
• Learn what missing parts of ourselves our partners carry that we then criticise in them
• Uncover negative patterns that sabotage your potential for relationship success
• Transform past relationship experiences into positive growth opportunities
• Say goodbye to old relationships that are getting in the way of us moving on

Most importantly you will practise the skill of dialogue, which will help you in all your relationships.
You will leave with a personal growth plan to guide you in making the changes you want going forward.

Book Workshop